Ever felt like you were barely holding things together, dodging drama, and just trying to survive? Congratulations, you have something in common with former UK Prime Minister Theresa May. Her leadership was a rollercoaster ride filled with backstabbing, bold decisions, and Brexit chaos, so basically, a real-life Game of Thrones episode, but with more paperwork.
While she may not have exited Downing Street with a standing ovation, her journey is packed with lessons you can use in your personal and professional life. Whether you’re dealing with group projects, office politics, or just trying to win an argument at Thanksgiving dinner, here are seven political lessons from Theresa May’s leadership that you can apply right now.
1. Know When to Hold ‘Em, Know When to Fold ‘Em
The Problem: Ever held onto something for too long, like a toxic relationship, a bad haircut, or an argument you KNOW you’re losing? Theresa May did that with Brexit negotiations, and it cost her dearly.
The Lesson: If something clearly isn’t working, pivot. Whether it’s a failing business idea, a dead-end job, or a group project gone wrong, don’t be afraid to cut your losses and move on.
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2. You Can’t Please Everyone (So Stop Trying)
The Problem: Theresa May tried to make both hardline Brexiteers and Remainers happy. Spoiler: It didn’t work.
The Lesson: Whether you’re leading a team, running a side hustle, or just planning a night out with friends, trying to please everyone is a surefire way to stress yourself out. Focus on what actually works instead of bending over backward for approval.
3. Speak with Confidence, Even When You’re Unsure
The Problem: May was known for her robotic delivery (Google “Maybot” for a laugh). In a world where charisma wins votes (and job interviews), this hurt her credibility.
The Lesson: Even if you don’t feel 100% sure, fake it ‘til you make it. Public speaking and confidence can be learned. If you want to master the art of persuasion, Talk Like TED is a game-changer.
4. Your Team Can Make or Break You
The Problem: May’s leadership was constantly under siege, from her own party! A team that doesn’t support you is a sinking ship.
The Lesson: Choose your inner circle wisely. Whether it’s colleagues, friends, or a business partner, surround yourself with people who uplift you, not secretly plot against you.
5. Adapt or Get Left Behind
The Problem: May stuck rigidly to her Brexit plan, even when it was clearly crumbling.
The Lesson: Be flexible. Life throws curveballs, jobs evolve, technology changes, and relationships shift. Stay adaptable, or risk becoming obsolete.
6. Know When to Exit (With Dignity)
The Problem: May’s teary resignation speech was a masterclass in too little, too late.
The Lesson: Sometimes, the best move is to bow out gracefully before you’re pushed. Whether it’s quitting a bad job or leaving a failing project, exit on your own terms.
7. Resilience is Everything
The Problem: No matter how many times she got knocked down (and there were MANY), Theresa May kept going.
The Lesson: You will face setbacks. You will deal with failures. The key? Get back up. If you struggle with resilience, The Obstacle Is the Way is a must-read.
Final Thoughts
Theresa May’s leadership was complicated, but it teaches us a lot about resilience, adaptability, and decision-making. So, next time you find yourself in a tricky situation, channel your inner (less robotic) leader and make a power move.
What’s the toughest leadership challenge you’ve faced? Drop a comment below, I’d love to hear your thoughts!